Showing posts with label City. Show all posts
Showing posts with label City. Show all posts

Wednesday, 6 May 2026

WHISPERS IN BETWEEN


Courtesy of freepik.com

If the truth were known, 
I would be saying how deeply I miss you. 

If the truth were known, 
I would be saying how sad I am. 

If the truth were known,
I wish you were that special one. 

Foraging around the dark and wet city 
to seek solace, to pray for comfort, and to encounter kindness. 

The darkness gives way to the glow of neon lights and the smell of tobacco 
until emotions intertwine with distant music and nearby laughter. 

Why do the famous faces on the silver screen portray it so much better? 
Casablanca is not sweet when transferred to the raw and mean streets of London
in 1989. 

Standing by the underground whilst I watch your lower walks away. 
Then, another quiet sigh amidst the bustling crowd. 

The full yellow moon whispers, 
“Yes, isolation is here all the time where it is often unseen but surrounds you -
much like me”. 

The ache lingers, so does the moon and the rain. 
The next day, the sun appears where its warmth embraces me once more 
like a mother's love provides soothing – 
I remain unchanged. 

If the truth were known,
I would learn to love myself. 

If the truth were known, 
I would embrace my feelings as they grow. 

If the truth were known, 
I would be at one with myself. 

But, I am not!

The poem above is not entirely and originally my creation. However, I have made some modifications whilst ensuring that the original thoughts articulated by its rightful owner are preserved. 

Monday, 4 May 2026

TRANSQUEEN SCANDINAVIA 2026: KASS TAPIRU OF GERMANY WINS CROWN


Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

On 02nd May 2026, the first-ever TransQueen Scandinavia 2026 was held at Varmesentralen in Fornebu, Norway. The historic event brought together 9 official candidates -each representing purpose and individuality- from across Scandinavia and Europe, namely: 

Samantha
Elise 
Jessie 
Kass Tapiru 
Kendall Ebo Te Bredesen 
Asunta/ Fritziemae Yee 
Fiona Solis 
Cassandra Havana Serdan 
Mitchelle 

ORGANISER AND THEIR MISSION 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

The TransQueen Scandinavia 2026 was organised by the LGBTIQ Filipino-Norwegian Association, an inclusive organisation in Norway founded in 2014. They uphold a mission to empower, educate, and create a safe space for all whilst also celebrating the unique richness of Filipino heritage. 

This year's gala beauty pageant with a purpose was made possible by the support of sponsors, partners, and community members. Thus, it raised an impressive amount where the proceeds will continue to fund the LGBTIQ Filipino-Norwegian Association's charity and community-related work. I believe they have a mission to extend support to abandoned children and to the home for dying, destitute people in Cebu City, Philippines, as a collaboration with the Missionaries of Charity in Cebu City. 

THE GALA NIGHT 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

Before the night of the gala pageant, the 9 official candidates participated in the following:

head photoshoots by Melanie Reyes Domingo;
intensive stage rehearsals; and 
group pictures

The night of the pageant was guided by Neil Nave and Edward Ainza, who thanked sponsors and partners as well as warmly welcomed the community. They also introduced the 6 members of the jury, who are mostly sponsors and who generously made the event possible. 
From left to right
Wendy Olsen,
Elise,
Samantha, 
Cassandra Havana Serdan,
Kass Tapiru, 
Kendall Ebo Te Bredesen,
Maria Tersten,
Fiona Solis,
Manny Aquino,
Sue,
Alek Bergen and 
Sigmond Drummfelt 
Courtesy of Fiona Soli's Facebook Account

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account


Dance Opening Introductions with Likha & P&P Crew
Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account
Denim- Statement
Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

The candidates enthusiastically energised the audience with their denim- statement dance opening introductions alongside dancers from the Likha & P&P Crew. Thereafter, they showcased more of their vibrant personality in a series of appearances and displays: 

seductiveness in their sexy swimsuits;
 artistry in their crafted fantasy costumes
unique talent presentations; and 
 classy and flashy floor-length evening gowns
Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

MINOR, MAJOR AND SPECIAL AWARDS 

They all looked exquisitely glamorous and sophisticated as they gathered and emerged onto the stage as one. The candidates whose performances had shone throughout the event were recognised and presented with the following awards that have been known to me: 

Miss Photogenic 
Kass Tapiru 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account
Best in Fantasy Costume 
Kass Tapiru 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account
Best in Swimsuit 
Kass Tapiru 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account
Best in Talent 
Kass Tapiru 

Miss Congeniality 
Asunta/ Fritziemae Yee 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account
Best in Evening Gown 
Asunta/ Fritziemae Yee 

Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account
Best in Production 
Cassandra Havana Serdan 

Social Media Award
Fiona Solis 

Miss Darling of the Crowd
Fiona Solis 

TOP 5 FINALISTS 

From left to right
Cassandra Havana Serdan, 
Kass Tapiru, 
Asunta/ Fritziemae Yee, 
Fiona Solis and
Kendall Ebo Te Bredesen 
Courtesy of the LGBTQ+ Filipino Norwegian Association's Facebook Account

Of the 9 official candidates who celebrated themselves on stage, only 5 were chosen to continue in the jittery Question & Answer portion. The finalists, in alphabetical order, were: 

Asunta/ Fritziemae Yee 
Cassandra Havana Serdan 
Fiona Solis 
Kass Tapiru 
Kendall Ebo Te Bredesen 

Their wit and composure were tested by stage nerves whilst they contended for the pioneering title of TransQueen Scandinavia 2026. 

TITLE HOLDER AND RUNNERS-UP 

The final tabulation was signed by the jury members, sealed in an envelope, and handed over to the hosts. The unanimously decided and proclaimed pioneering euphoric title holder with her humble runners-up are: 

TransQueen Scandinavia 2026 
Kass Tapiru 

First Runner-up 
Cassandra Havana Serdan 

Second Runner-up 
Asunta/ Fritziemae Yee 

Third Runner-up 
Kendall Ebo Te Bredesen 

Fourth Runner-up 
Fiona Solis 

For most of the candidates, the gala pageant was never a competition nor a battle where you had to prove who stood above the rest. This is because they measured success by the new trusted sisters they gained, who would bring more positivity into their lives.

The above relevant details were excerpted from public Facebook posts. If any part of the information requires correction, please feel free to contact me and I will update it accordingly. 

Sunday, 29 January 2017

THE UNHERALDED FOGGY DAY TO CANTERBURY


The sky was clear and the sun was shining bright which revived the wilted grasses and became green once again. In the car, we were full of joy and happiness and from the window, handsome trees on the verges of the road resembled robust twigs. Their leaves disappeared but underneath their bald features was healthy living trees. Gradually, the clear blue sky was replaced by developing misty clouds and by heavy fog. On the way to our destination, thick lying clouds covered the road and everything visible became challenging to our naked eyes. We drove very slowly and then, I felt we were driving through an eerie ghost town. What a creepy experience and shuddersome imagination of mine! 

When we were in the heart of the Cathedral city, Canterbury, the challenging cottony cloud increasingly became clearer and thinner. We followed the street signs but our noviceness around the city directed us to inaccurate routes. We laughed and drove back until we found our way going on to their High Street via Rose Lane and Parade.

I was very excited to know more of Canterbury because tourists had various views about their one day escapade. Driving for hours in this chilly weather will make you weary and also, you would long for a hot drink. That is why, we picked the first restaurant we found and had our chosen brunch meal with hot drinks. We sat and stretched our legs after that foggy journey.

There were cobblestone alleys with local and known corporate retail stores. We walked on Burgate which guided us to locate the Entrance to Canterbury Cathedral's Precincts. A regal designed arched doorway built in 1517 with a sturdy ornate bronze sculpture of Jesus Christ which I read was a replacement as the original was damaged; 12 beautiful figures of angels and delicately restored carved miniature castle banners/flags. Apart from the precincts' well-preserved beauty, an elevated 20-foot tall stone monument cast with crucifix on the very top, valour dignitaries and banners was erected outside and enclosed by a metal fence. These were the extravaganzas of the Cathedral located on Sun Street, Strada and infront of the Mercery Lane. 
( Entrance to Canterbury Cathedral's Precincts)
(20-foot tall Stone Monument)
 

I wasn't able to explore the inside of Canterbury Cathedral as to see its historical and majestic beauty wasn't free. They posted a notice and read as “The Cathedral Precincts' Entrance Charges” which ranges from £8.00 to £32.00. I was down in the mouth for a little while but noted that the pretty penny charges has been keeping the Cathedral in pristine condition. On the other hand, you can still enter for free if your main reason for visiting the Cathedral is to pray solemnly. 

The disappointment soon vaporised and was replaced with excitement as we ventured around the rest of the alleys. It reminded me of York but the thought of comparison wasn't a great idea at all. For me, Canterbury as a Cathedral city offered frustrating and shocking revelations as it offered less breathtaking buildings and wasn't so awe-inspiring. Yes, they have the Cathedral which was barricaded with charges before you could see its illustrious majestic beauty. There are also cobblestone roads which reminded me of strong horses pulling and carrying carriages in the earlier periods. On the contrary, their elongated high street starting from Fenwick Building on St. George's Street up to Heraldic arched passageway of Westgate Towers was occupied mostly by the uniformity of known corporate high street brands. It was akin to the bustling Oxford Street in Central London.
(Heraldic Arched Passageway of Westgate Towers)
  
Yes, the letdown feeling vanished for awhile but it transpired when I couldn't find more awe-inspiring and wondrous gems in every alley we traversed through. In my own opinion, the city upholds and shelters nothing apart from their famous Cathedral, Royal Museum and Free Library.

Generally speaking, there is nothing bad about corporate retail store brands who have been injecting money into the council's pot and the city itself. They bring-in people and attract consumers which make a high street/ town centre livelier and more buoyant. Sad but true, known brands have been successful in the trading business as more and more people are getting conscious about the labels over quality. Isn't it preferably right? 

I didn't dream of shattering my day nor would kept on sulking while wandering around the city because of frustrations. That is why, I looked for something delightful and uplifting to make most of my day worthwhile. I found an admirably handsome tree just next to a brick & flintstones- wall which was over towering with branches like a witches' broom or an octopus' tentacles. There was also the Beaney House of Art and Knowledge known as the central museum, library and art gallery of the city. A listed building designed by the architect and City surveyor A.H. Campbel in 1897 and was opened to the public on the 11th of September 1898. What I liked more about it was the welcomingly unpretentious Tudor revival facade. Yes, the Cathedral city has free gems after all which were erected on the verges of their high street. 
(Admirably Handsome Tree)
(Beaney House of Art and Knowledge)
 

We sat in a cafe after hours of exploring and relaxed with hot drinks on our table. We were on the first floor of the cafe's building which had narrow windows for us to see the outside aerial view of the city. It was heartwarming on such a cold misty day to see loving families together and jovial students enjoying the company of their closest friends.

I haven't explored everything in Canterbury especially the world renowned Cathedral (maybe I will go to pray!). I am sure that there are lots of gems waiting for me. That is why, I will venture further next time especially when the sun is shining; when the twiddling humming bees are basking around and the colourful flowers in fully bloom.

Friday, 8 January 2016

MY ANTIPOLO, PHILIPPINES CLIQUE


It wasn't in my top most plans to visit Philippines last year but I'm glad I pursued it!

I purchased my return flights weeks before my arrival day and happily managed to send a balikbayan box, too. Flying over to my beloved country wasn't a plain vacation to relax as I had special reasons at the back of my mind. These reasons were successful and went well. Nowadays, I feel incredibly complete and a woman full with joie de vivre.
  
Year 2015 wasn't the best year of my life but it has given me a few things to remember and treasure. Such as my cheerful memories with my Antipolo Clique. They were beside me when I needed extra hands and showed love when I was down and almost losing hope. 

My charismatic sister BABANG who truly believes that I can do most things in life. You witnessed my struggles when I was in Manila like getting up at 21:00 or 22:00 in order to go to work on time. Thank you for forcefully pushing Tatay that I should stay with you when Kuya Boyet had to go back on board the ship. I treasure all the memories we shared especially the flood days at Cainta, Rizal and our 'love & hate' bonding as sisters. 

KUYA GODFREY who is now taller than me and was my helping hand from the day of my operation until my last day in the Philippines. I have to say that you have become smarter as shown in your grades and sturdier for withstanding the test of commuting, for hours, the busy metropolis. I was once a commuter in Metro Manila and you need to have a strong sense of yourself aside from your stamina in order to survive. Kuya, Thank You so much and I'm very proud of your achievements at school. 

You are my cousin and we didn't talk much when we were in General Santos City. Were you scared of me? You must have been but I was completely different all those years ago. Thank you ATE MAICA for helping me too, like when I needed your presence to change my bandages in the toilet. I remembered that we weren't talking much for a few days but our bloodline taught us how to become closer. You have to stay strong as being away from your parents will never be easy but it will yield something good for your inner self. I enjoyed and loved our Makati day/night out, especially our friendly yet flirty smile and hand waves to passers-by from Starbucks' glass window. 

The over-eager and loquacious Kate who was a bit aloof towards me for a few days and who later called me, MOMMY. You called me Mommy with your cute voice with a very warm hug too that made me closer to you. You have an advance brain and always made me smile when you conversed with me in English. I was very amazed how you correctly used each English word in a sentence. I have to say that I could even see myself in you when I was at your age. I love you articulate ATE KATE! 

I was able to breastfed you when you were a baby as you couldn't stop from crying. Can you believe it? You stopped, slept and I think that was the reason why we are so bonded until now ATE NICOLE. I arrived there a week after you were born and it was a very delightful feeling to see you grow. I will forever treasure your annoying behaviour (at the age of 3) every time you tried to wake me up in my room at Cainta, Rizal. You are no longer a baby but you will always be my baby and I will forever be your MOMMY. 

  
 

I traveled alone in reluctance and when I stayed there with you all, we shared memories of laughter, aloofness and even got very closer than years before. Then, the day I traveled back again to England you all made me cry but I was left with elated tearful eyes. The worst part was, you ruined my applied eyeliner (LOL!).

Wednesday, 23 December 2015

MY VISIT IN THE ANCIENT CAPITAL OF ENGLAND

by: MisS VictoriA DaviD

I was away for a couple of nights as I travelled to the South West of England. The Southampton bus from Victoria Coach Station took me and the other 19 passengers to Winchester!

As there were only 20 passengers boarded on the bus, the inside was very spacious and cosy. No one sat beside me, as each row was occupied by one! It was good to see the streets of London as we made our way-out of the city. One of the streets we passed that impressed me was Brompton Square. A place where most of the designers' shops can be found. It was like being in gay paree! The journey took me an hour and 10 minutes and a few of us disembarked and the rest traveled to Southampton.

I am finally on the ground of Winchester, THE ANCIENT CAPITAL OF ENGLAND!

The statue of King Alfred was very visible and close to the coach station. This is why they called the station KING ALFRED STATUE COACH STOP. Now we know! I waited for my friends to arrive and stood beside a red building, pretending that I wasn't feeling anxious and afraid. While waiting for them to arrive, I observed that the place was also a tourist destination.

Once we met, we went to the King Alfred Pub located in Hyde Street to fill our hungry stomachs. We sat in the garden and waited for the waitress to serve the ordered fish and chips as well as my favourite lasagne.

When we finished eating our meal and partially satisfied our hunger, we toured around rather than go directly to their place. We passed a posh school good for silver spoon children. Just a few steps from the school was the preserved Jane Austin's house. As we walked on, we entered a portal that led to the PILGRIMS' CHOIR SCHOOL BUILDING. This hall is used by the schools for lessons, practices and rehearsals. Opposite of the building was the right wing of the WINCHESTER CATHEDRAL.
(Top to Bottom: Pilgrim's Choir School Building and Winchester Cathedral' right wing)

WINCHESTER CATHEDRAL was built in 1079 and is now the major landmark. The right wing of this Gothic building was used in the film 'Harry Potter'. It was not just a holy place as it was also a graveyard and a freedom park for families and visitors. I took a few pictures of the Cathedral including a fully grown PINK CHERRY TREE. It was a magnificent man made structure that is central to the history of WINCHESTER.
(Top to Bottom: Cherry Tree and Winchester Cathedral)

After being amazed by the Cathedral, we walked and passed a SQUARE occupied by restaurants. This square was a short cut onto the HIGH STREET with an ancient clock that had been renovated. At the end of the passage was the statue of Bishop Wykeham known to the locals as MARKET STATUE.
(Top to Bottom: Square and Market Statue)

The street wasn't wide as it was elongated! It was occupied by shops and eating places. We mingled with the crowd and walked uphill to the HAMPSHIRE COUNTY COURTS. This court had a rounded shaped area in front and is used to prosecute high-profiled criminals in this country. On the side was KING ALFRED's GREAT HALL use as an OATH TAKING OFFICE for people who met the qualifications of becoming naturalised British citizens.
(Hampshire County Courts)

There was a marbled sculpture that celebrates Queen Elizabeth II 50 years reign, called QUEEN'S JUBILEE COMMEMORATIVE SCULPTURE. And adjacent to this sculpture was a preserved medieval castle.
(Queen's Jubilee Commemorative Sculpture)

It was a lovely day! We passed and saw people in BROADWAY GARDENS enjoying the warm sunshine that penetrated their skin. Spring flowers were blooming and added colours to the green atmosphere. Grasses were trimmed well and trees were no longer bald. It's already Spring, the breathing of fresh air was enjoyed without the worry of the freezing weather like in the winter. It was nice to see how people appreciated a sunny day in this county and in England, as a whole.
(Broadways Gardens)

It is not a big county, however, there are interesting places that I admired and was fascinated by, too.

Just a few minutes walk there was a gently flowing river that snakes its way through mid- Hampshire. It is a premier chalk stream that has a total length of 28 miles, the RIVER ITCHEN. It is a natural habitat for all forms of animals. The river served as a boundary, the right side was a relaxing place where you can sit on benches while looking at the crystalline river. The other side was occupied by big and posh houses with beautifully-maintained rear gardens. As they loved their gardens, one of the house owners was refurbishing and redesigning his backyard to make it more attractive and he had a concept of creating a bench over the river. I couldn't wait to sit and dip my feet in the water!
(Top to Bottom: Owner's Garden and River Itchen in the City Centre)

The city exploration was exciting and visiting historical places was very instructive. As we were quite tired and wanted to rest our weary bones, we headed to the car park and drove to their place!

It was a lively and warm Saturday!

I dressed the vegetable and tuna salads for our breakfast and prepared the table in the garden; we all ate together like a family. We had a friendly conversation that made me feel so comfortable being with them, it was like having an extended family in this county. It was a pleasant feeling to meet them who warmly welcomed me into their lives. 

When we finished our breakfast and we're ready to go, we first visited a private estate with big houses and showed me those ample houses. Then, we drove to a beautiful Georgian town called Arlesford and parked closed to the old pond which is fed by the RIVER ITCHEN. The crystal clear water ran quietly and flows into the Southampton water. There was a house mill erected over the pond and located a few steps from the pavement. It is owned by a family, who were delighted by the lovely weather in their garden. We passed a number of visitors enjoying their exploration of the pond while we were walking along a narrow footpath. It terminated on a highway with Georgian houses and restaurants. An uphill walk led to a pub, the edifice was very basic but the backyard was breath-taking. It had a panoramic view of a lake and a closed island made of wild tall grasses (bulrushes). There were white swans at a distance and the grasses served as their nest, to raise and nurture their offspring. We left this delightful setting by backyard gate and it led us to an uphill street.
 
(Top to Bottom: Old Pond in Arlesford, House Mill and Pub's Backyard)

As we parked the car near the pond, the strength of our legs and propulsion of our feet were well used in walking, from one area to another. We entered a private property where the oldest train in Hampshire is to be found. The train is still functioning and is used by a group of people who booked for a vintage ride. There was also a group of MORRIS DANCERS performing their traditional steps. It was delightful to witness their costumes and the chanting music they played on their instruments that made my feet boogie.
( Morris Dancers)

I thought we would drive back home when we headed to the car. However, they showed me a few preserved and historical places that were used in many international films. We passed pastured lands and I saw big bulls too.

We stopped. I changed my sandals to boots before we cross a footbridge that had two flowing rivers. The water that flows was part of the RIVER ITCHEN; what a well-rounded river! There were 2 footbridges, one took us to a family restaurant. We saw a father and son trying hard to catch big fishes, they even dipped in the water wearing waterproof trousers in the hope of luck! When we reached the footbridge that was connected to the restaurant, we took a few pictures but didn't go to the end of the bridge. On our way back to the car, we passed a few couples and group of youngsters, then drove to a petrol station that was just a few metres away from their place.
 (One of the Twin Rivers)

I enjoyed the placid lake, the island grass, the twin rivers, the wooden footbridges and the animals. I am thankful to see all of these gifts created by nature.

I like the modernity of the High Street but the wilderness refreshed my second day in Winchester!


 (Top to Bottom ,Clockwise: High Street, Broadway Gardens, Winchester Cathedral and Queen's Jubilee Commemorative Sculpture )

It is time for me to leave my friends place as I was ready to go back home!

My travelling bag was packed with used clothes in a plastic bag; my personal kit was zipped properly and a magazine inserted in one of the pockets.

We had breakfast, bowls of cereals with milk and cups of hot peppermint tea. Very healthy and reviving! A few minutes prior to my departure time, we left their place. It was just a 4 minute drive to the King Alfred Statue Coach Stop.

The bus wasn't on time so while waiting we had a nice conversation in the car. A few passengers sat on benches with their beloveds. The bus arrived and was already occupied with passengers from Southampton. Most of the rows were filled but I found a vacant aisle seat. It moved-off slowly and we all waved our hands to our family and friends.

The bus snakes through the City Centre before it reached the motorway and zoomed to the City of London. There was a friendly atmosphere, the driver behaved like a tour guide. He chatted and shared information while driving, mainly touches of history about the places we were passing. He was not just a driver as he was also a sensible, thoughtful person.

I was awake the whole journey and pre-occupied with my pen and notebook. I always look outside as it gave me ideas on what to write and remember. As I was quite busy, I didn't notice that we had arrived at Victoria Coach Station. I stepped-out into the bustling terminal and found my way easily to the exit.

Victoria Train Station was a few blocks away and I carried 2 different-sized bags while following the street signs in order to catch and board my desired train back home.

My journey to Winchester was educational and refreshing!
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